Flourish Spaces owner and founder Stevie McFadden shares her stories, thoughts, and ideas on how to create a home that you love.
At the recommendation of my friend, I recently listened to a conversation about grief between Stephen Colbert and Anderson Cooper on Cooper's new podcast called, All There Is. It is a beautiful, thought-provoking conversation that is at its core, about love. Remembering his recently deceased mother, Colbert observed that the act of loving anyone is physical.
I happened to be listening to this as I was doing the dishes and folding laundry and other mundane chores and I was reminded of how much laundry my mom folded (and I probably threw on the floor), the lunches she packed (that we most likely complained about), the rooms she cleaned (that we definitely trashed). The physical act of loving takes many forms: cooking, breaking bread with extended family, sipping cocktails with friends, spooning on the couch to binge watch trashy television, and yes, doing laundry and cooking and cleaning. In these gestures, how we love becomes inextricably intertwined with where we love.
The kitchen seems to get all of the attention on the stage where moments that turn into memories play out. It’s the heart of the home, the place where everyone gathers, yada yada ya. And maybe a den or a great room gets second billing. But what if we put the spotlight on some of the forgotten parts of our homes that provide important support? I’m guessing those spaces are not the beneficiaries of much attention or many decorating dollars.
Funny enough, my friend who recommended this podcast has been upgrading some of the spaces in her home that might otherwise be considered dead spaces. She has let us transform them into beautiful and more utilitarian places.
My friend also generously welcomes people into her home, hosting work socials, family gatherings, and friends for various occasions. So, most recently, we took the space under her stairs and transformed it into a beautiful bar area. We updated her vintage sideboard with some funky hardware, added some custom wallpaper from local designer, Sarah Rowland, (Leo, printed on grasscloth), and installed black fishbone sconces (Available through The Collective). Collectors of great art, she and her husband selected a new piece from Sarah Irvin, to go above the sideboard. Voila - a beautiful bar that attracts you and makes you linger.
During the month of February, a month where we are constantly reminded to show our love to sweethearts and gal pals and classmates, how about showing a little love to the neglected spaces in our home? We would love to hear from you - DM us on instagram or drop us a comment on the spaces in your home where you do the daily work of loving others. And of course, please come by and see us in our space for a little dose of inspiration!
Stevie
February Event: ART NIGHT
We are currently featuring artwork by Richmond abstract artist, Dandridge “Dede” Davis www.dandridgeart.com in the form of original paintings, textiles and wallpaper.
Please join us for an evening to meet and greet with Dede, shop and celebrate her work!
Thursday, February 23rd, 6:30 - 8:30PM
Wine, beer and light bites will be served
What We’re Learning
We kicked off a very exciting new project this month that sent us down a research rabbit hole learning all about the British Arts + Crafts movement. In the late 19th century, the movement put an emphasis on how things were made, valuing the use of natural materials and designs inspired by nature. We found ourselves rekindling our love affair with William Morris and his designs which live on in impossibly beautiful wallpapers and fabrics. Here is a sneak peek of our jumping off point for this project: